Journal

Thoughts, reads,
and the real stuff.

Book reviews, postpartum tips, and an honest account of what it's actually like to be a brand new doula. Welcome.

photo of a newborn's feet from below
Day in the Life

Everyone Came to See the Baby

The house was full for three weeks. A grandmother in the guest room, a sister on the pull-out couch, a neighbour who...

October 10, 2026 Read →
Day in the Life

The Clothes

Most of the people I visit in the first month are wearing some version of the same four things. Maternity leggings with...

October 7, 2026 Read →
A person lying in bed under a grey sheet and a striped blanket, head propped on one hand, a tablet, two bottles and a crocheted duck on the bedside table.
Postpartum Tips

The First Period

The bleeding right after birth gets explained at least once before anyone goes home. The period that turns up afterwards gets explained...

October 2, 2026 Read →
A hospital wall at night, a red digital clock reading 4:12 above two hand sanitizer dispensers and pale wood panels.
Journal

The Birth You Didn’t Have

The conversation almost never starts with the birth. It starts with the baby’s sleep, with whether the stitches are supposed to still...

September 30, 2026 Read →
A parent slumped on a couch holding a phone in one hand and a tall insulated tumbler in the other, a toddler asleep across their lap and a cat curled up beside them.
Day in the Life

Feeding to Sleep

Nine in the evening, the baby has started snoring at the breast or on the last ounce of the bottle, and you...

September 26, 2026 Read →